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Human relationships and social etiquette: How to speak when with leaders

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In a Chinese context, when giving gifts to superiors, there are four common phrases they might use to gauge the situation. 1. The leader may say, "If it follows the procedure, I'll handle it." You should respond by downplaying the importance of the matter, indicating that you're just looking to chat and that you don't expect anything in return. 2. If the leader claims, "This is difficult to handle," you should acknowledge the challenge and express your belief in their capability to resolve it. 3. When the leader suggests, "I can just make a call," you can say you're just visiting and imply that taking back the gift would be disrespectful. 4. If the leader says, "Let's talk after it's done," you should reply that the outcome doesn't affect your friendship, reassuring them that you're in the right place. Understanding social dynamics and etiquette is crucial in navigating relationships and achieving success in life. Mastering these interpersonal skills can help avoid pitfalls and lead to smoother paths in personal and professional endeavors.

When you give gifts to your leader, they will generally use these 4 sentences to filter you; giving gifts can help you get ahead.

The first sentence: The leader will say, "I will handle it if it follows the procedure." At this point, you should say, "Is this matter feasible? It's no problem. Please help me digest this little thing. I don't expect this matter to succeed; I just want to chat with you. Now that we've chatted, I can't take advantage of you. If you don't accept it, it means you look down on me. Just this once, let's say it's a one-time thing."

The second sentence: The leader will tell you, "This matter is difficult to handle." At this point, you should say, "I know it's difficult to handle, which is why I came to you. With your ability, I believe it's not a big deal. If you say it's difficult, I believe it. I can sleep soundly knowing my own capabilities."

The third sentence: "For this matter, I just need to make a phone call; just take the fruit and leave the rest for me." At this point, you should say, "I just came to see you by the way. This matter, I just mentioned it casually. If you want me to take back what I brought, are you trying to slap my face? It's just something worth 80 cents; let's say it's a one-time thing."

The fourth sentence: The leader will say, "Let's talk after the matter is done." At this point, you should reply, "If the matter isn't handled well, then we won't eat together. If the matter isn't handled well, we can't be friends. Whether this matter succeeds or not is no problem. With your words, I know I've come to the right place."

China is a society of human relationships, and everyone inevitably relies on others to get things done and to give gifts. Remember, any use of social etiquette must adhere to the principle of maintaining the bottom line of being a good person. In real life, if you don't understand social etiquette, you must take a look at this set of social etiquette.

Human feelings and common emotions are essentially the rules of social etiquette and how to interact with others. Those who understand human feelings, understand the rules of the world, and can combine and flexibly apply both are the ones who truly grasp the essence of social etiquette. By avoiding the pitfalls of giving gifts once, and by understanding a bit more about social etiquette, you'll find that life will have fewer detours, and making money will come naturally. Click the link below "Go Purchase" to buy and learn.

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