Today, I chatted with a colleague. I knew in advance that he was married, quite early actually, so I deliberately brought up the topic of marriage. We talked a lot, and from his perspective, I gained a deeper understanding of relationships, love, and marriage. Of course, I can't say it's very profound because I haven't entered the realm of marriage yet.
During the conversation with that colleague, we talked about one of his classmates and a girl in the class who had known each other since elementary school, through middle school, and into high school, with a hint of childhood sweethearts. They drifted apart after graduating from college. Two years later, the girl came back, saying her ex-boyfriend had broken up with her, and she wanted to reconcile. The guy said he no longer believed in love. After hearing this, I didn't know what to say. At the same time, I was also thinking: What is love really? After much contemplation, I gained nothing. My heart was just filled with love.
I believe love is love, not loving is not loving, without so many twists and turns. When you love someone, you should love them sincerely, passionately, seriously, and purely. Love is about tolerance, understanding, and support. Some people's relationships go through ups and downs, some relationships remain steady from start to finish, and some have dramatic highs and lows. Regardless, only those who can make it to the end are what they truly desire. Of course, these are just my understanding, my thoughts.
At the end of last year, my cousin called me and chatted, saying I was not young anymore and should find a wife, then he warned me: don't just settle for anyone. After hearing that, I burst out laughing, thinking to myself: if someone likes me, that's already good enough, no need to be picky. At the end of the year, I met this girl, and our relationship has been passionate from the beginning to the end. Sometimes I think, destined relationships will always come together and stay together until the end.
As I write this, a strong sense of longing suddenly surges within me. Darling, I love you very much. All you have to do is: never have an ounce of doubt!! Love you from beginning to end, love you with all my heart, love you unconditionally.
I'll say it again: Pei, you deserve my full love and effort, Chen Wenqi.
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